A Paragon of Wuhun
"If you want to live in a society where trans women who "pass" eagerly tell the men they're dealing with that they're transgender, then create a more positive environment for the men who like trans women and for trans women in general. That's an easy solution. More trans women would be "upfront" if stealth wasn't a tool of survival for many trans women. A Paragon of Wuhun
But let's be real.
Ya'll don't want to live in that world. You would rather we die, disappear, become quiet and stay out of public life.